Practice with Embodied Confidence

Gender Affirming Care Training for Virtuosic Healers

You do complicated work—

—and see the world in complex ways. 


If you were a musician, we’re talking Chopin.

You play intricate compositions, and you handle nuanced, layered work with a grace that’s unmistakably yours. 

But with trans and nonbinary clients, it’s Chopsticks all over again.

You find yourself having to revisit the basic building blocks of your craft.

(FYI, I know you didn’t go into massive student loan debt so you could practice pronouns in a sentence grammar school-style…)

And it’s frustrating to know you’ve moved so far beyond this in every other area—but here, your hands fumble over keys that seem foreign.

The music just isn’t in you, no matter how much you long to hear it.

You’re crystal clear on this, though–

You DON’T want to be the provider who “doesn’t get it.”

—

You’ve seen those “affirming” colleagues… the tone-deaf ones who repeatedly misgender, misunderstand, and don’t self-correct.

All the while, they keep that pride flag on their website, list themselves as an LGBTQ+ affirming provider, and respond to requests for “trans-affirming clinician” with all the confidence in the world.

It. Makes. You. Furious.

But…..

Even though you can feel the difference, you can’t claim it. You don’t have the chops yet, and you don’t want to cause harm.

There’s an ocean between you and them, virtuoso—

they’d confuse Beethoven with the Backstreet Boys, for god’s sake.

And.

In those quiet, painfully honest moments, you admit—it’s tedious to go back to basics, and feel this vulnerable. But that feels like the thing you aren’t supposed to say out loud…

So you push it down, and keep feeling like a goddamn fraud.

Well, you’re probably not a fraud.

And you’re definitely not alone.

But I’ll level with you.

Getting to the level YOU want to be at?

A “certification” from the CEU superstore that sends those pamphlets in the mail won’t cut it.

Here’s the truth.

Trans affirming care, like every other skill set you’ve mastered, requires the perfect blend of knowledge, practice, and guidance to help you move beyond the technical skills, and settle into an intuitive flow.

In other words, you need a pedagogy that gets this stuff out of your head, and into your bones.

Luckily for you, that’s my superpower.

And my gender IQ’s mission.


So…if you’re ready to stop practicing scales and want to start feeling the music again, let’s start the conversation.

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